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6th Aug 2024

Blended Family Wisdom with Ron Deal

In this episode, Lesa Koski interviews Ron Deal, a world-renowned expert on blending families. The discussion covers Ron's background and the journey that led him to his current role, including his professional experiences and personal challenges. Ron shares practical advice for single parents considering dating, the role of a stepparent, and handling complex family dynamics. He emphasizes the importance of managing fears to build successful blended families and touches on crucial topics such as co-parenting and involving children in the dating process. The episode also highlights Ron's various resources, including books, podcasts, and online courses, aimed at supporting blended families.

00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement

01:37 Ron's Journey to Becoming a Blended Family Expert

04:57 Personal Challenges and Triumphs

07:15 Dating and the Single Parent

10:26 Red Flags and Yellow Lights in Relationships

15:29 The Role of a Stepparent

20:54 Navigating Grief in Blended Families

22:40 The Importance of Intentionality in Blended Families

24:01 Single Parenting vs. Blended Families

26:17 Co-Parenting and Conflict Resolution

28:13 Managing Fear in New Relationships

31:30 Involving Kids in the Dating Process

34:57 Guidelines for Introducing a New Partner

37:11 Resources for Blended Families



  Resources by Ron Deal  


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Ron L. Deal, LMFT, LPC

 

President, As For Me and My House Ministries

Director, FamilyLife Blended®, a ministry of FamilyLife®

10201 W. Markham, Ste 105, Little Rock, AR 72205

www.RonDeal.org | SmartStepfamilies.com 

www.FamilyLife.com/blended 


Listen or Subscribe to my FamilyLife Blended podcast here

Sample media interviews and presentations  


Facebook: @SmartStepfamilies

Facebook: @FamilyLifeBlended

Twitter: @RonLDeal

Instagram: @FamilyLifeBlended



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Doing Divorce Different with Lesa Koski
Divorce, co-parenting & midlife comebacks for women over 40
Divorce, co-parenting, menopause, marriage, and starting over after 40—this podcast is your guide to a healthier, faith-filled life transition.

Hosted by family law attorney, mediator, and life coach Lesa Koski, each episode is designed to take the fear out of major life change and guide you toward peace—whether you’re facing separation, navigating a divorce, working to strengthen your relationship, or rebuilding your life in midlife.

You’ll get heart-centered legal clarity, emotional support, and practical tools to help you heal, grow, and move forward with confidence.

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Lesa has spent over 25 years helping families through mediation and family law, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. She’s also a breast cancer survivor, wellness advocate, cowgirl at heart, and follower of Jesus who believes your hardest season can become your greatest comeback.

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