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30th Aug 2022

Divorce De-Clutter (Divorce and Organizational Opportunity) with Spruce Solutions Heather Bender and Terri Link

In today’s episode, we are joined by co-owners of Spruce Solutions, Heather Bender and Terri Link. Heather and Terri founded the organizing company together to help people tackle their tasks with less stress. They’ve joined us to discuss their different services and give some great examples of rooms they have helped clients re-organize. We also talk about how organizing your home can make a difference in how the house feels to bring clarity, calmness, and peace to the home. Tune in today to learn more about their services and tips that you can do on your own to spruce up your home.

In this episode:

[1:38] Introduction to how Heather and Terri joined together. [2:55] What is cognitive coaching? [3:50] How was Spruce Solutions born? [6:12] What does it look like when a potential customer contacts Spruce Solutions? [8:08] What do the services look like? [15:42] How long does it usually take to organize a space? [18:00] How do people get organized? 

Key Takeaways:

Organizing your home can create a feeling of mental clarity. The less clutter you have around your house, the easier it is to focus on the items that need to be in the front of your mind. You don’t have to tackle the whole house at once. Start small, organize your junk drawer or bathroom counter, and then get inspired to continue managing different areas of your home. Hiring someone to come in and organize can have a similar feel to a house cleaner. They can come monthly and help re-organize or sort through your things. They are also an excellent non-biased party who can help you determine what needs to be in the house, what needs to be seen, and what can be kept but put away, and what can be donated. 

Quotes:

“I'm in charge now; I get to reinvent my life, I get to put things where I want them, and I get to feel the way I want to and have my own space. Even though divorce is hard and we don’t wish it on people, it's often an opportunity.” - Lesa Koski

“What is it about this space that you either don’t feel happy with right now, what are you envisioning it to be like, what are things you like about it, what are things you don’t like about it?” - Terri Link

Guest Bio:

Spruce Solutions is a professional organizing company serving the Twin Cities and surrounding areas.

Congratulations! You have taken the first step to getting started on living your best life by stopping here. Eliminating clutter and getting organized will help you live your most efficient and productive life, giving you the time to focus on the people and things you love the most.

At Spruce Solutions, we take pride in working one on one with our clients in a confidential and judgment-free approach to best understand your needs. After all, this is your home and our mission is to make you feel happier and reduce stress by creating a space that works for you and your family.  From the initial consultation to the final touches, we will treat your project as if it is our own home. We believe that every little detail matters. We have a passion for organization and an eye for design. Let our talents go to work sprucing up your space!

Resources:

Spruce Solutions Website

Spruce Solutions Facebook 

Spruce Solutions Instagram

Lesa Koski Website

Lesa Koski’s Online Courses

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Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
Divorce, co-parenting, menopause, marriage, and starting over after 40—Doing Divorce Different is your guide to a healthy, faith filled life transition.

Hosted by Family Law Attorney and Mediator Lesa Koski, Doing Divorce Different is a candid, empowering podcast designed to take the fear out of divorce and guide you toward peace—whether you’re navigating a split, working to stay married, or rebuilding a better life after a major transition. Each week, Lesa brings heart-centered legal insight, emotional support, and holistic wisdom to help you heal, grow, and thrive.

We cover everything from amicable divorce and co-parenting strategies to parenting plans that actually work and support kids in thriving through change. You’ll learn how to prepare for marriage with prenups, revisit your relationship with post-nuptial agreements, and understand what it really takes to stay married or rekindle love after a rough season. If you're in the midst of a grey divorce, wondering how to not get divorced, or questioning whether love can be found again, this show is for you.

Lesa also explores the emotional and physical changes that often accompany midlife and major life shifts. From navigating the impact of menopause on your health, marriage, and mood, to dealing with the loneliness that can come after divorce or empty nesting, you’ll find honest conversations that don’t shy away from real-life challenges. And for those of you in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, you’ll discover what it means to truly build a better life after 40.

Health and wellness are deeply integrated into this journey. Lesa shares insights on the benefits of rest, joy, nutrition, fasting, protein, and bone health, along with the power of movement, community, and exercise to support mental clarity and physical strength. You’ll learn how to take care of yourself with intention—because healing isn’t just emotional, it’s also biological.

Mindset work and self-coaching are recurring tools offered in episodes to help you reframe your story and shift from fear to freedom. And through it all, the show honors the role of faith, spiritual surrender, and letting God lead you through every season. Whether you're leaning into your relationship with God for the first time or deepening a lifelong practice, you’ll hear how surrender can bring peace even in the hardest moments.

You’ll hear real stories from people who have done divorce differently, saved their marriages, or found new love and purpose on the other side. Lesa also brings in conversations about marriages that have stood the test of time, co-parenting through complex seasons, and the realities of parenting after separation while maintaining stability for your kids.

This is not just a podcast about divorce. Doing Divorce Different is about taking back your life, rewriting your future, and trusting that you’re not starting over, you’re starting better. If you’re craving practical advice, soul-level encouragement, and real conversations about creating a healthy, joyful, purpose-driven life, you’ve found your community.

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About the Host:
I’ve spent over 25 years helping families navigate amicable divorce as a lawyer and mediator, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. But my mission has expanded. Today, I support women over 40 not just through endings, but in building stronger relationships—and sometimes even saving their marriages. I’m a breast cancer survivor, a cowgirl at heart, a wellness advocate, and a follower of Jesus. My life and faith fuel my passion for helping women thrive.

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