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27th Feb 2024

Make Money Your Best Friend by Learning What You Value

This 'Doing Divorce Different' podcast episode features Jennifer Lee, the founder of modern wealth, who joins host Lesa Koski, family law attorney turned mediator, for an enlightening discussion about financial management and empowerment during transitions such as divorce. Jennifer shares her experiences of helping clients manage finances, focusing importantly on what clients value and helping them understand their needs, wants and discretionary amounts. Much time is spent discussing the 'non-money' spouse, particularly in the context of divorce, along with ways to alleviate financial fear and improve personal comfort with financial planning. Jennifer also discusses her book, 'Squeeze the Juice', which aims at helping readers get the best out their experiences and fulfilling their financial goals.

00:01 Introduction to Doing Divorce Different

00:29 Meet the Guest: Jennifer Lee, Founder of Modern Wealth

00:57 Understanding Finances and the Non-Money Spouse

01:55 The Importance of Reading and Learning

02:17 Jennifer's Approach to Finances and Money Management

03:15 The Concept of Financial Planning and Its Simplicity

04:05 Jennifer's Personal Journey with Money

04:38 Understanding Your Money Story and Its Impact

06:21 The Fear of Finances and How to Overcome It

07:19 The Importance of Knowing What You Value

08:46 The Concept of Discretionary Spending

13:18 The Reality of Living Above Your Means

18:34 Taking Control of Your Finances

27:03 Understanding the Title of Jennifer's Book: Squeeze the Juice

29:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Bio: Jennifer Lee is the founder of Modern-Wealth (www.Modern-Wealth.com); and has been in the  financial services industry for 26 years; 44 years if you count going to the office with her father  as a child. She has a relationship with money that is familiar, and she loves engaging people  on the subject. Aside from travel, cooking, and hanging out with her family, she is most happy  working. She is passionate about educating her clients, the divorcee wanting to get her future  lined up, a business client desiring to expand or sell his operation, or a couple wanting to make  

sure they have provided for their kids and grandkids, about the nuances of planning for  their financial future; hoping to change their perspective of the process. For her, it is fulfilling, and fun. 

Book Website: SqueezeTheJuiceBook.com 

Facebook: Facebook.com/ModernWealthInvest 

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/In/Jennifer-Lee-awma®-aif®-1b5aa56/ 

Instagram: Instagram.com/modernwealthloveletter/

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About the Podcast

Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
Divorce, co-parenting, menopause, marriage, and starting over after 40—Doing Divorce Different is your guide to a healthy, faith filled life transition.

Hosted by Family Law Attorney and Mediator Lesa Koski, Doing Divorce Different is a candid, empowering podcast designed to take the fear out of divorce and guide you toward peace—whether you’re navigating a split, working to stay married, or rebuilding a better life after a major transition. Each week, Lesa brings heart-centered legal insight, emotional support, and holistic wisdom to help you heal, grow, and thrive.

We cover everything from amicable divorce and co-parenting strategies to parenting plans that actually work and support kids in thriving through change. You’ll learn how to prepare for marriage with prenups, revisit your relationship with post-nuptial agreements, and understand what it really takes to stay married or rekindle love after a rough season. If you're in the midst of a grey divorce, wondering how to not get divorced, or questioning whether love can be found again, this show is for you.

Lesa also explores the emotional and physical changes that often accompany midlife and major life shifts. From navigating the impact of menopause on your health, marriage, and mood, to dealing with the loneliness that can come after divorce or empty nesting, you’ll find honest conversations that don’t shy away from real-life challenges. And for those of you in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, you’ll discover what it means to truly build a better life after 40.

Health and wellness are deeply integrated into this journey. Lesa shares insights on the benefits of rest, joy, nutrition, fasting, protein, and bone health, along with the power of movement, community, and exercise to support mental clarity and physical strength. You’ll learn how to take care of yourself with intention—because healing isn’t just emotional, it’s also biological.

Mindset work and self-coaching are recurring tools offered in episodes to help you reframe your story and shift from fear to freedom. And through it all, the show honors the role of faith, spiritual surrender, and letting God lead you through every season. Whether you're leaning into your relationship with God for the first time or deepening a lifelong practice, you’ll hear how surrender can bring peace even in the hardest moments.

You’ll hear real stories from people who have done divorce differently, saved their marriages, or found new love and purpose on the other side. Lesa also brings in conversations about marriages that have stood the test of time, co-parenting through complex seasons, and the realities of parenting after separation while maintaining stability for your kids.

This is not just a podcast about divorce. Doing Divorce Different is about taking back your life, rewriting your future, and trusting that you’re not starting over, you’re starting better. If you’re craving practical advice, soul-level encouragement, and real conversations about creating a healthy, joyful, purpose-driven life, you’ve found your community.

Subscribe now and join Lesa Koski for weekly episodes that will help you grow stronger in your relationships, your health, and your faith, no matter where you’re starting from.

About the Host:
I’ve spent over 25 years helping families navigate amicable divorce as a lawyer and mediator, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. But my mission has expanded. Today, I support women over 40 not just through endings, but in building stronger relationships—and sometimes even saving their marriages. I’m a breast cancer survivor, a cowgirl at heart, a wellness advocate, and a follower of Jesus. My life and faith fuel my passion for helping women thrive.

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