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27th Feb 2024

Make Money Your Best Friend by Learning What You Value

This 'Doing Divorce Different' podcast episode features Jennifer Lee, the founder of modern wealth, who joins host Lesa Koski, family law attorney turned mediator, for an enlightening discussion about financial management and empowerment during transitions such as divorce. Jennifer shares her experiences of helping clients manage finances, focusing importantly on what clients value and helping them understand their needs, wants and discretionary amounts. Much time is spent discussing the 'non-money' spouse, particularly in the context of divorce, along with ways to alleviate financial fear and improve personal comfort with financial planning. Jennifer also discusses her book, 'Squeeze the Juice', which aims at helping readers get the best out their experiences and fulfilling their financial goals.

00:01 Introduction to Doing Divorce Different

00:29 Meet the Guest: Jennifer Lee, Founder of Modern Wealth

00:57 Understanding Finances and the Non-Money Spouse

01:55 The Importance of Reading and Learning

02:17 Jennifer's Approach to Finances and Money Management

03:15 The Concept of Financial Planning and Its Simplicity

04:05 Jennifer's Personal Journey with Money

04:38 Understanding Your Money Story and Its Impact

06:21 The Fear of Finances and How to Overcome It

07:19 The Importance of Knowing What You Value

08:46 The Concept of Discretionary Spending

13:18 The Reality of Living Above Your Means

18:34 Taking Control of Your Finances

27:03 Understanding the Title of Jennifer's Book: Squeeze the Juice

29:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Bio: Jennifer Lee is the founder of Modern-Wealth (www.Modern-Wealth.com); and has been in the  financial services industry for 26 years; 44 years if you count going to the office with her father  as a child. She has a relationship with money that is familiar, and she loves engaging people  on the subject. Aside from travel, cooking, and hanging out with her family, she is most happy  working. She is passionate about educating her clients, the divorcee wanting to get her future  lined up, a business client desiring to expand or sell his operation, or a couple wanting to make  

sure they have provided for their kids and grandkids, about the nuances of planning for  their financial future; hoping to change their perspective of the process. For her, it is fulfilling, and fun. 

Book Website: SqueezeTheJuiceBook.com 

Facebook: Facebook.com/ModernWealthInvest 

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/In/Jennifer-Lee-awma®-aif®-1b5aa56/ 

Instagram: Instagram.com/modernwealthloveletter/

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Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski
Real conversations for women over 40 about faith, fitness, and fresh starts
Mindset, movement, and faith after 40—because midlife isn’t a crisis, it’s your comeback.

Welcome to Doing Life Different with Lesa Koski, the podcast for women over 40 who are ready to rewrite the rules, reclaim their joy, and rediscover their purpose. Whether you're navigating divorce, rediscovering your health, deepening your faith, or learning how to have fun again—you’re in the right place.

Host Lesa Koski—wife, mom, coach, and seasoned mediator—brings real talk, relatable wisdom, and expert interviews to guide you through midlife reinvention with grace and grit.

In each episode, you’ll get practical tools and empowering conversations on:

Mindset & personal growth

Faith & spiritual connection

Fitness, movement & health

Divorce, marriage & relationships

Fun, purpose & starting fresh in the second half of life

This isn’t just self-help. It’s soul-level transformation. Get ready to do life different—because your next chapter starts now.

Lesa also explores the emotional and physical changes that often accompany midlife and major life shifts. From navigating the impact of menopause on your health, marriage, and mood, to dealing with the loneliness that can come after divorce or empty nesting, you’ll find honest conversations that don’t shy away from real-life challenges. And for those of you in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, you’ll discover what it means to truly build a better life after 40.

Health and wellness are deeply integrated into this journey. Lesa shares insights on the benefits of rest, joy, nutrition, fasting, protein, and bone health, along with the power of movement, community, and exercise to support mental clarity and physical strength. You’ll learn how to take care of yourself with intention—because healing isn’t just emotional, it’s also biological.

Mindset work and self-coaching are recurring tools offered in episodes to help you reframe your story and shift from fear to freedom. And through it all, the show honors the role of faith, spiritual surrender, and letting God lead you through every season. Whether you're leaning into your relationship with God for the first time or deepening a lifelong practice, you’ll hear how surrender can bring peace even in the hardest moments.

You’ll hear real stories from people who have done divorce differently, saved their marriages, or found new love and purpose on the other side. Lesa also brings in conversations about marriages that have stood the test of time, co-parenting through complex seasons, and the realities of parenting after separation while maintaining stability for your kids.

This is a podcast about thriving through Cancer, taking back your life, rewriting your future, and trusting that you’re not starting over, you’re starting better. If you’re craving practical advice, soul-level encouragement, and real conversations about creating a healthy, joyful, purpose-driven life, you’ve found your community.

Subscribe now and join Lesa Koski for weekly episodes that will help you grow stronger in your relationships, your health, and your faith, no matter where you’re starting from.

About the Host:
I’ve spent over 25 years helping families navigate amicable divorce as a lawyer and mediator, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. But my mission has expanded. Today, I support women over 40 not just through endings, but in building stronger relationships—and sometimes even saving their marriages. I’m a breast cancer survivor, a cowgirl at heart, a wellness advocate, and a follower of Jesus. My life and faith fuel my passion for helping women thrive.

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