You Don't Have to Fight it Out in Court Alternative Solutions to Avoiding Court Battles
Today I am honored to have a fellow mediator, Rosemarie Ferrante on the show. Rosemarie walks us through the emotional and financial prep work that is necessary to have a smooth legal divorce process. She talks about her own experience going through a divorce and how she supports her own clients with the tools they need to create a solid co-parenting relationship. Rosemarie clarifies the difference between mediation, collaboration, and what it’s like having to go to litigation. Tune in to get clarity around all the emotional, financial, and legal information that comes with divorce.
In this episode:
[2:06] What led Rosemarie to do the work she is doing?
[5:15] What was Rosemarie’s divorce like?
[7:40] Is there ever a time that mediation doesn’t work?
[9:30] How does Rosemarie use emotional prep work while working with clients?
[16:07] What should people think about finances when they are looking for divorce support?
[19:05] How can a mediator support you through divorce and provide law information?
[25:10] What is the most important thing to do if you are contemplating divorce?
Key Takeaways:
Divorce doesn’t have to be a fight, destructive, or a traumatic experience, it is possible to go through a divorce in a healthy manner with two adults working together.
There is a team involved in your divorce. You need your coaches, your therapist, and financial support. These are investments, but it can ultimately lead to a cheaper divorce if you can avoid going to court and more agreeable decision making if you have worked on yourself.
When contemplating divorce make sure that you do understand your options for a legal process, collaborative divorce, mediation, litigation, what they are and what they aren't. Understand what divorce professionals you can have on your team to best support you.
Quotes:
“The court system is, in my opinion, not meant for families.” - Rosemarie Ferrante
“Every family is different. What you need might be different than what your friend or your neighbor or your sister needed. Understanding all the various roles will be really important for you to be able to have the support you need to get through the process.” - Rosemarie Ferrante
“I think that the most important thing if you're contemplating divorce, is to make sure that you do understand your options for a legal process, collaborative divorce, mediation, litigation, what they are and what they aren't. And then also understand what divorce professionals you can have on your team to best support you.” - Rosemarie Ferrante
Guest Bio:
Rosemarie Ferrante is a family attorney focusing on non-adversarial divorce through mediation and collaborative divorce. She has been practicing exclusively family law for over 25 years. Rosemarie’s goal is to provide families the resources and tools needed to smoothly transition through the divorce process. Her practice helps couples who wish to separate or divorce in reaching agreements that foster goodwill and trust, while meeting each spouse’s individual goals and needs, while most importantly, supporting ongoing positive relationships with their children, and with each other as co-parents.
Resources:
Divorce Mediation Center of Fairfield County, LLC | Attorney
Divorce Mediation CT Instagram
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