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21st Mar 2023

Make Money Your Best Friend Through Divorce & Beyond

Today I am joined by financial coach, Linda Lingo. Linda empowers women to help them repair their relationships with finances and make money their best friend. Did you know by the time we are seven years old, our financial story is already created in our minds? Throughout this episode, Linda gives many mindset shifts that can help us to change our story to allow a better relationship with finances. She talks about how we take our financial story into our relationships and marriage, which can be a cause for arguments and especially create issues during a divorce. Tune in today to learn your financial story; it’s never too late to make money your best friend and rewrite your financial story. 

In this episode:

[1:50] What inspired Linda to be a financial coach? [4:07] The first step in making money your best friend is to understand your beliefs about money. [7:30] How did Linda teach her children about money? [9:42] What was Linda’s takeaway from her childhood and learning about money? [11:30] How do our financial stories and beliefs impact your marriage? [12:57] What can someone do to uncover their financial story? [15:10] It's never too late to make money your best friend. [16:14] Linda gives us a couple of steps that people can take to feel more abundant with their money. [18:58] How is money like energy?

Key Takeaways:

Words are power, and they create energy. Make sure you are putting out believable statements. Small steps taken consistently achieve big results.

Quotes:

“Being in control of your finances gives you freedom, gives you security, gives you a feeling of abundance and gratitude.” - Linda Lingo

“Whatever our money stories or beliefs are, we bring those into our marriage.” - Linda Lingo

“When women can understand that they don't have to be afraid of money, that money can be their friend, they start setting up their finances in such a way that it supports them. And so, for many women, it's getting out of that scarcity mindset - I’m afraid, I don't know if I’m going to be ok, I don't know what my future looks like - you need to take the time to give yourself grace, number one, and number two that it's never too late to learn about how to make money your best friend.” - Linda Lingo

Guest Bio:

I started this business to provide tools and resources that help women gain clarity and confidence in their finances so they can move forward with their lives.

I want to empower women with smart money strategies so they can create a stress-free approach to money.

With over 30 years of experience in the financial industry, I have accumulated the knowledge and skill to understand your financial needs. More importantly, I have experienced most of these life events, thus giving me a first-hand understanding of what you are going through.

With my compassion and guidance, I will provide the right tools needed to make wealth a part of your everyday vocabulary.

Resources:

Linda Lingo’s Website

Lesa Koski Website

Lesa’s Online Courses

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Doing Divorce Different A Podcast Guide to Doing Divorce Differently
Divorce, co-parenting, menopause, marriage, and starting over after 40—Doing Divorce Different is your guide to a healthy, faith filled life transition.

Hosted by Family Law Attorney and Mediator Lesa Koski, Doing Divorce Different is a candid, empowering podcast designed to take the fear out of divorce and guide you toward peace—whether you’re navigating a split, working to stay married, or rebuilding a better life after a major transition. Each week, Lesa brings heart-centered legal insight, emotional support, and holistic wisdom to help you heal, grow, and thrive.

We cover everything from amicable divorce and co-parenting strategies to parenting plans that actually work and support kids in thriving through change. You’ll learn how to prepare for marriage with prenups, revisit your relationship with post-nuptial agreements, and understand what it really takes to stay married or rekindle love after a rough season. If you're in the midst of a grey divorce, wondering how to not get divorced, or questioning whether love can be found again, this show is for you.

Lesa also explores the emotional and physical changes that often accompany midlife and major life shifts. From navigating the impact of menopause on your health, marriage, and mood, to dealing with the loneliness that can come after divorce or empty nesting, you’ll find honest conversations that don’t shy away from real-life challenges. And for those of you in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, you’ll discover what it means to truly build a better life after 40.

Health and wellness are deeply integrated into this journey. Lesa shares insights on the benefits of rest, joy, nutrition, fasting, protein, and bone health, along with the power of movement, community, and exercise to support mental clarity and physical strength. You’ll learn how to take care of yourself with intention—because healing isn’t just emotional, it’s also biological.

Mindset work and self-coaching are recurring tools offered in episodes to help you reframe your story and shift from fear to freedom. And through it all, the show honors the role of faith, spiritual surrender, and letting God lead you through every season. Whether you're leaning into your relationship with God for the first time or deepening a lifelong practice, you’ll hear how surrender can bring peace even in the hardest moments.

You’ll hear real stories from people who have done divorce differently, saved their marriages, or found new love and purpose on the other side. Lesa also brings in conversations about marriages that have stood the test of time, co-parenting through complex seasons, and the realities of parenting after separation while maintaining stability for your kids.

This is not just a podcast about divorce. Doing Divorce Different is about taking back your life, rewriting your future, and trusting that you’re not starting over, you’re starting better. If you’re craving practical advice, soul-level encouragement, and real conversations about creating a healthy, joyful, purpose-driven life, you’ve found your community.

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About the Host:
I’ve spent over 25 years helping families navigate amicable divorce as a lawyer and mediator, always focused on protecting what matters most—your kids and your peace of mind. But my mission has expanded. Today, I support women over 40 not just through endings, but in building stronger relationships—and sometimes even saving their marriages. I’m a breast cancer survivor, a cowgirl at heart, a wellness advocate, and a follower of Jesus. My life and faith fuel my passion for helping women thrive.

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