Saddle Up Segment: How to Deal with Judgments During Conflict
Saddle Up Segments are bite-size, bonus episodes offering one thing that our listeners can do right away to add value to their life. Max discussed tips to use with judgments, as they are the source of all violence and are so prevalent when living with someone. He says instead of judging someone, say “I know this is a judgment and so not true about you, but I keep telling myself you are a ____”. This gives the opportunity to talk about the difference without the slap. Max also talked about how the need behind the judgment is almost always the opposite of the content of the judgment. The judgment comes from the need not being met. Like what you're hearing? Be sure to check out the full-length episodes; new releases every Tuesday.
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